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12,000-Year-Old Mаѕѕіve Underground Tunnelѕ Are Reаl And Stretсh From Sсotlаnd To Turkey

Whаt mаkeѕ them аll the more myѕterіouѕ, іѕ how аbѕolutely аmаzіng they аre, аnd ho metісulouѕly hey were сreаted.


Theѕe thouѕаndѕ of Stone Aged underground tunnelѕ hаve left ѕсіentіѕtѕ сomрletely рerрlexed. Dr. Henrісh Kuѕсh exрlаіned іn hіѕ book entіtled ‘Seсretѕ of the Underground Door to аn Anсіent World’ thаt the tunnelѕ hаd been dug under lіterаlly hundredѕ of Neolіthіс ѕettlementѕ throughout Euroрe. The mere fасt thаt they hаve ѕurvіved for over 12,000 yeаrѕ рroveѕ thаt the orіgіnаl tunnelѕ muѕt hаve been аll the more mаѕѕіve.

He further belіeveѕ thаt the tunnelѕ were to be uѕed аѕ hіghwаyѕ, whісh аllowed рeoрle to trаvel to dіѕtаnt рlасeѕ асroѕѕ Euroрe.

He exрlаіnѕ thаt ‘Aсroѕѕ Euroрe, there were thouѕаndѕ of theѕe tunnelѕ – from the north іn Sсotlаnd down to the Medіterranean. They аre іnterѕperѕed wіth nookѕ, аt ѕome рlасeѕ, іt’ѕ lаrger, аnd there іѕ ѕeаtіng, or ѕtorаge сhаmberѕ аnd roomѕ. They do not аll lіnk uр but tаken together іt іѕ а mаѕѕіve underground network.’

‘In Bаvаrіа іn Germаny аlone we hаve found 700metreѕ of theѕe underground tunnel networkѕ. In Styrіа іn Auѕtrіа we hаve found 350metreѕ,’ he ѕаіd.

‘Aсroѕѕ Euroрe, there were thouѕаndѕ of them – from the north іn Sсotlаnd down to the Medіterranean.

‘Moѕt аre not muсh lаrger thаn bіg wormholeѕ – juѕt 70сm wіde – juѕt wіde enough for а рerѕon to wrіggle аlong but nothіng elѕe.

‘They аre іnterѕperѕed wіth nookѕ, аt ѕome рlасeѕ іt’ѕ lаrger аnd there іѕ ѕeаtіng, or ѕtorаge сhаmberѕ аnd roomѕ.

‘They do not аll lіnk uр but tаken together іt іѕ а mаѕѕіve underground network.’

Whіle mаny hаve deѕсrіbed the tunnelѕ аѕ аnсіent hіghwаyѕ, otherѕ hаve exрlаіned thаt they were а method for рroteсtіng men from рredаtorѕ. In hіѕ book, Dr. Henrісh exрlаіnѕ thаt сhurсheѕ were often buіlt by the entrаnсeѕ to the tunnelѕ beсаuѕe the Churсh wаѕ аfrаіd of the heаthen legасy thаt the tunnelѕ mаy hаve reрreѕented аnd wаnted to ѕtoр theіr іnfluenсe.


Other, ѕіmіlаr tunnelѕ hаve been dіѕсovered on other сontіnentѕ. And even throughout the Amerісаѕ, а number of аnсіent tunnelѕ hаve been found. However, the bіg queѕtіon іѕ why were theѕe раѕѕаgeѕ сonѕtruсted? Furthermore, how were they сonѕtruсted? Whіle there аre а number of legendѕ regаrdіng them, reѕeаrсherѕ hаve yet to dіѕсover аny ѕolіd аnѕwerѕ.

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THE BENEFITS OF BURNING SAGE WITH SCIENCE TO BACK IT UP

Burning sage is also known as smudging and is an ancient spiritual ritual.

It has been established as a tribal practice, especially in Native American cultures, which include the Lakota, Cahuilla, and Chumash.

The smoke from the sacred fires or herbs was used in a ceremony to purify the individuals and even heal them.

Smudging was looked up to as a bridge to reach the higher realms and was also an avenue to get rid of emotional negativity that had found its place in a person.

This ancient practice was performed before a ceremony or even after a fight to clear the air.

The spiritual benefits of these practices were met with skepticism but their benefits were proven by science. Burning sage neutralizes positive charges and also bears antiseptic properties.

BURNING SAGE: LOOKING THROUGH THE SCIENTIFIC GLASSES

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A paper was published in 2006, namely Medicinal Smokes, which reviewed information from 50 countries over different continents and found that smoke, when administered medicinally, can be used to assist lung, brain, and skin function. It was also seen that passive fumes could be used as air purifiers.

In another paper, the Journal of Ethnopharmacology, 2007 came to the conclusion that smudging was an antiseptic while offering several health benefits.

They observed that an hour’s treatment of smoke (Havana Sámagri) in a closed space reduced airborne bacteria by 94%.

Studies showed that:

“Absence of pathogenic bacteria Corynebacterium urealyticum, Curtobacterium flaccumfaciens, Enterobacter aerogenes (Klebsiella mobilis), Kocuria rosea, Pseudomonas syringae pv. persicae, Staphylococcus lentus, and Xanthomonas campestris pv. tardicrescens in the open room even after 30 days are indicative of the bactericidal potential of the medicinal smoke treatment. We have demonstrated that using medicinal smoke it is possible to completely eliminate diverse plant and human pathogenic bacteria of the air within confined space.”

It also added that “the advantages of smoke-based remedies are rapid delivery to the brain, more efficient absorption by the body, and lower costs of production. This review highlights the fact that not enough is known about medicinal smoke and that a lot of natural products have the potential for use as medicine in the smoke form. This review argues in favor of the extended use of medicinal smoke in modern medicine as a form of drug delivery and as a promising source of new active natural ingredients.”

PHYSIOLOGICAL AND NEURAL EFFECTS OF SMUDGING

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The Federation of American Societies for Experimental Biology published a study in 2008, that talks about how burning incense activates ion channels in the brain to get rid of depression or stress.

Raphael Mechoulam, who was one of the researchers, stated:

“We found that incensole acetate, a Boswellia resin constituent, when tested in mice lowers anxiety and causes antidepressive-like behavior.”

It has also been said that burning sage may act as a blessing for individuals with bronchitis, allergies, and asthma. Inhaling the smoke during the process of smudging can aggravate your respiratory conditions, so wait until the smoke clears before entering the room.

People also believed that burning sage can help you achieve a healing state. This, too, has some scientific basis as sages like salvia sage and white prairie sage contain thujone. Thujone is slightly psychoactive and can enhance intuition.

Burning sage can also lift your spirits and banish negativity.

A 2014 study documented white prairie sage (also known as estafiate) as an important traditional remedy for treating anxiety, depression, and mood disorders in certain cultures.

Another study from 2016 by the University of Mississippi established that Salvia apiana is rich in compounds that activate certain receptors in the brain. These receptors are responsible for elevating mood levels, reducing stress, and even alleviating pain.

Burning of sage has several benefits with proper research backing the claims related to antimicrobial properties and enhanced alertness.

You must treat these practices with respect as it is still a sacred religious practice in several Native American cultures.

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WELCOME TO AUROVILLE: IN THIS CITY, THERE IS NO RELIGION, NO POLITICS, AND NO MONEY

Welcome to a place full of colors and creeds, without religion, politics, and money, and where everyone lives in harmony. This might be hard to digest but this city exists in reality.

 

Auroville (City of the Dawn) is a city in the district of Viluppuram, which is around 150 km away from Chennai, South India. This city was founded by Mirra Alfassa or “Mother” in 1968 and has 2,500 citizens from 50 nations and has the capacity to grow up to 50,000 citizens. This town was designed by architect Roger Anger.

AUROVILLE, A CITY THAT DOES NOT FOLLOW TRADITIONAL RULES

This city does not follow the rules that you are used to. Auroville is basically an experiment in unity that was based on the views of Sri Aurobindo, an Indian yogi. The basic idea was that if people from different castes and cultures could love each other in Auroville, maybe the rest of the world could follow suit. Auroville found its origin in the French language, “Aurore” means dawn and “Ville” refers to a city.

Auroville does not have a religion, or a political system and to top it all off, has no use for money. They have committees to run the town and use “Aurocards” instead of regular money.

“Auroville wants to be a universal town where men and women of all countries are able to live in peace and progressive harmony, above all creeds, all politics, and all nationalities. The purpose of Auroville is to realize human unity.”- Mirra Alfassa

The Auroville township was created with open support from the Government of India, the UN cultural organization, and UNESCO but is currently becoming self-reliant in the true sense.

Auroville aims to have pollution-free transportation and to be the perfect model of a sustainable eco-city.

Their community is organized into 15 farms which reach a total area of 160 hectares. There is ample food to feed their entire population. Around 50 villagers and 300 neighbors toil on these farms and produce 2% of cereal consumed and almost half of the total vegetable consumed. The village is self-sufficient in dairy products and seasonal fruits.

The architectures in Auroville are experimental which can optimize the use of renewables by recycling and reusing resources.

Several other projects are run by its citizens, which include schools, ITs, and handicraft production, and employ 4,000-5,000 people from nearby villages.

THE PEACE AREA

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The Matrimandir is constructed in the middle of the town and was conceived by Alfassa as “a symbol of the Divine’s answer to man’s aspiration for perfection”. This area is known as the Peace Area as silence is maintained to ensure its tranquility. A spiral ramp leads upwards to an air-conditioned chamber of polished white marble, which is referred to as “a place to find one’s consciousness”.

Matrimandir is equipped with a solar power plant and is surrounded by manicured gardens. When there is no sun or after the sunset, the sunray on the globe is replaced by a beam from a solar-powered light.

Auroville is a town like no other. There is no need to build walls as there are no restricting systems. Things that divide us like politics, economy, and religions and create boundaries are completely absent.

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Discovered 10 million dollars of rare gold coins, buried under the shade of an old tree

California couple walking dog find $10 million in rare gold coins

Backyard Gold Bonanza

Backyard Gold Bonanza

Backyard Gold Bonanza

LOS ANGELES — A Northern California couple out walking their dog on their property stumbled across a modern-day bonanza: $10 million in rare, mint-condition gold coins buried in the shadow of an old tree.

Nearly all of the 1,427 coins, dating from 1847 to 1894, are in uncirculated, mint condition, said David Hall, co-founder of Professional Coin Grading Service of Santa Ana, which recently authenticated them. Although the face value of the gold pieces only adds up to about $27,000, some of them are so rare that coin experts say they could fetch nearly $1 million apiece.

“I don’t like to say once-in-a-lifetime for anything, but you don’t get an opportunity to handle this kind of material, a treasure like this, ever,” said veteran numismatist Don Kagin, who is representing the finders. “It’s like they found the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.”

Kagin, whose family has been in the rare-coin business for 81 years, would say little about the couple other than that they are husband and wife, are middle-aged and have lived for several years on the rural property in California’s Gold Country, where the coins were found. They have no idea who put them there, he said.

The pair are choosing to remain anonymous, Kagin said, in part to avoid a renewed gold rush to their property by modern-day prospectors armed with metal detectors.

They also don’t want to be treated any differently, said David McCarthy, chief numismatist for Kagin Inc. of Tiburon.

“Their concern was this would change the way everyone else would look at them, and they’re pretty happy with the lifestyle they have today,” he said.

They plan to put most of the coins up for sale through Amazon while holding onto a few keepsakes. They’ll use the money to pay off bills and quietly donate to local charities, Kagin said.

Before they sell them, they are loaning some to the American Numismatic Association for its National Money Show, which opens Thursday in Atlanta.

What makes their find particularly valuable, McCarthy said, is that almost all of the coins are in near-perfect condition. That means that whoever put them into the ground likely socked them away as soon as they were put into circulation.

Because paper money was illegal in California until the 1870s, he added, it’s extremely rare to find any coins from before that of such high quality.

“It wasn’t really until the 1880s that you start seeing coins struck in California that were kept in real high grades of preservation,” he said.

The coins, in $5, $10 and $20 denominations, were stored more or less in chronological order in six cans, McCarthy said, with the 1840s and 1850s pieces going into one can until it was filed, then new coins going into the next one and the next one after that. The dates and the method indicated that whoever put them there was using the ground as their personal bank and that they weren’t swooped up all at once in a robbery.

Although most of the coins were minted in San Francisco, one $5 gold piece came from as far away as Georgia.

Kagin and McCarthy would say little about the couple’s property or its ownership history, other than it’s located in Gold Country, a sprawling, picturesque and still lightly populated section of north-central California that extends east of Sacramento to the Nevada line, running through the hills and valleys of the Sierra Nevada mountain range.

The discovery of gold at Sutter’s Mill, about 50 miles northeast of Sacramento, set off the California Gold Rush of 1848.

The coins had been buried by a path the couple had walked for years. On the day they found them last spring, the woman had bent over to examine an old rusty can that erosion had caused to pop slightly out of the ground.

“Don’t be above bending over to check on a rusty can,” Kagin said she told him.

They were located on a section of the property the couple nicknamed Saddle Ridge, and Kagin is calling the find the Saddle Ridge Hoard. He believes it could be the largest such discovery in U.S. history.

One of the largest previous finds of gold coins was $1 million worth uncovered by construction workers in Jackson, Tenn., in 1985. More than 400,000 silver dollars were found in the home of a Reno, Nev., man who died in 1974 and were later sold intact for $7.3 million.

Gold coins and ingots said to be worth as much as $130 million were recovered in the 1980s from the wreck of the SS Central America. But historians knew roughly where that gold was because the ship went down off the coast of North Carolina during a hurricane in 1857.

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AMAZON DELIVERY DRIVER TOLD “TO FINISH HIS SHIFT” AFTER SUFFERING SYMPTOMS THAT TURNED OUT TO BE A HEART ATTACK

Neil Martin, an Amazon delivery driver shared with the Liverpool Echo, that his boss at the agency told him to complete his shift after he had apparently suffered symptoms that were later deemed to be a heart attack. 

Neil, 46, the father of two, had experienced dizziness, cold sweats, and chest pains while he was doing his job, sometime around 2 pm on March 16. He began his shift by packing up his assigned packages from the  Knowsley Amazon depot and went forward. He was assigned to deliver the packages to the Wigan area on that day.

 THE TIMELINE OF HOW THINGS TOOK PLACE WITH THE AMAZON DELIVERY DRIVER

Neil was subcontracted to Amazon via a private agency, Deva Logistics. When he sensed those worrying symptoms, he decided to go to the hospital to get himself checked.

He apparently tried to call the Deva Logistics office but got no answer and later dropped a text message explaining his situation.

Liverpool Echo reported seeing the message which said: “Mate can you call me, am getting chest pains and keep going dizzy am gonna have to go and get checked out.”

Neil shared with the Liverpool Echo: “I started getting pains in my chest, feeling dizzy and I was getting sweaty. I ignored it for a minute or two but I started thinking no, this does not feel right.

“So I pulled over and phoned the office, but it rang out, so I texted the work mobile number that I was getting chest pains and the manager rang me back. I asked if someone could come and get my packages because I wanted to go to the hospital. They told me someone could come and take half my route off me but that they couldn’t do any more than that.”

A representative for Deva Logistics stated that the company had indeed sent a driver to help him out and believed that Neil had been relieved of his duties. According to article from the Liverpool Echo, Neil strongly refuted these claims and shared that he felt he was left with no option but to carry on with his duties.

He shared: “I didn’t realize how serious it was at the time. But it went on right through the afternoon, just getting worse and worse. The dizzy spells were so bad I kept having to pull over because I couldn’t see anything.”

Neil stuck with his daily duties despite his symptoms and dropped the van at the Amazon depot at 6.30 pm.

Neil said:  “When I got back to the depot my manager asked me if I was alright to work tomorrow and said he had a smaller route over the water I can go on. I said I need to go to the hospital first before I start thinking about packages.”

Neil went back home and then to the A&E at Whiston Hospital with his partner, Susan Martin. Doctors sensed that something was horribly wrong as his heart rate was around 320 beats per minute than the regular 85.

Neil was kept at the hospital for 10 more days and went through extensive testing which included an angiogram. He was also prescribed strong medicines to keep his heart rate under check.

After Neil was stabilized he was sent to Liverpool Heart and Chest Hospital for an MRI scan, following which he was allowed to go back home to rest.

Neil told the Liverpool Echo: “The doctors told me I had already had a heart attack and asked me why I had waited so long before coming in.

“I was disgusted. It made me feel like delivering packages was more important than my health. I am not blaming them for me having a heart attack, but I feel like I could have died on that road and they didn’t care,” he added.

THE AMAZON PARTNER REPLIED TO THIS INCIDENT, AS REPORTED BY THE ECHO 

Echo also reported what the representative for Deva Logistics said:

“We take the safety of the independent, self-employed contractors we engage with, very seriously, and we are still investigating how the incident was handled.

“As soon as we learned Neil was unwell, one of our four standby contractors was sent to relieve him of the load, and as far as we were concerned Neil had received the support that he had requested. We were not aware that Neil had been left with packages. Had we been aware we would have immediately sent another driver to relieve him.”

“We have people on standby specifically to cover routes which need support at short notice, including a driver needing to finish early, illness, or in the case of traffic issues or vehicle breakdown. A couple of days later our site manager texted Neil to see how he was. Neil explained what was happening, thanked the manager, and a thumbs up emoji for getting in touch and would keep him informed on his progress.”

The Amazon logistics partner also reported that Neil had called one of their managers and had apparently “demanded money” to prevent him from going to the press. The time of the call that they suggested, however, was after Neil had already spoken to the Echo.

The Amazon driver denied these allegations immediately.

The Echo had tried to make contact with Amazon regarding this incident.

A spokesman for Amazon replied: “Safety is a top priority and we wish the delivery driver a speedy recovery. We have launched an immediate investigation with the delivery service provider who engages the driver.”

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Visit the palace of the “Prince of Cambridge” where there are rare gold treasures

The whole of England is “bursting” with joy to welcome the birth of “The Prince of Cambridge” – the son of Prince William and Princess Kate. Let’s visit the splendid Buckingham Palace, the future residence of England’s little prince.

Buckingham Palace was built in 1701 and is surrounded by three parks, including the famous Hyde Park. It was built to serve the country’s special events and for the Royal Family. It is also a major tourist destination of London, attracting many tourists.

The Queen of England and other members of the royal family will entertain guests and hold solemn ceremonies here. The palace has a total of 19 living rooms, 52 bedrooms for guests and royal members, 78 bathrooms, 188 rooms for palace staff, and 92 working rooms.

Buckingham Palace was built by the Duke of Buckingham and Normanby in 1703. In 1762, the palace was sold to King George III. Since 1837, under Queen Victoria, Buckingham Palace officially became the Royal Palace.

Since 2001, the garden part of the palace has been open to welcome visitors. The design of the garden is quite special and can take people back in time to the year 1852, when the palace began as a residence for the Royal Family.

In 2004, the 50th anniversary of Queen Elizabeth’s accession to the throne, a reception was held for more than 500 children of the Queen’s charity in the palace gardens. Caring for poor children is one of the charitable works that the Queen is interested in. People also organized for the children to walk around the palace gardens. Around, outside the palace, there were many guards, they never showed any expression, not even a smile.

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ARTIST CHALLENGES THE SHADOW SIDE OF SOCIETY WITH 21 POWERFUL IMAGES

Polish artist Pawel Kuczynski is challenging the accepted societal norms with his award-winning satirical paintings.

Taken from his Pictorem profile Pawel Kuczynski graduated Fine Arts Academy in Poznan has been rewarded with more than 100 prizes and distinctions creating thought-provoking illustrations that comment on social, economic, and political issues through satire.

In 2005 he received “Eryk” * prize from Association of Polish Cartoonists, for the newly discovered cartoonist, with a record number of awards in international competitions.

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THE 10 CORPORATIONS THAT SECRETLY RULE THE WORLD

You — and I — are not as free as we would like to believe. Every one of our decisions has repercussions, and in modern-day society, it is nearly impossible to live without funding powerful corporations which are in possession of most of the world’s wealth.

It’s a sobering reality, one more people need to learn as time is running out for communities to regain control and become self-sufficient. Perhaps, by learning which corporations control the world through their influence and products, consumers may alter their spending and lifestyle habits to find true freedom — the kind not often experienced from within the system.

Following are the 10 corporations that secretly “rule the world”:

10) Nestlé

Nestlé owns over 8,500 different brands in 80 countries, including Gerber baby food, Perrier, DiGiorno, and Hot Pockets. It also owns Butterfinger and KitKat. Every year, the corporation rakes in $90 billion.

9) Lockheed Martin

Lockheed Martin’s global military expenditure is just over $1.7 trillion. As EducateInspireChange reports, it’s no wonder companies producing and supplying weapons exert such as huge amount of power over world events.

8) Quanta Computer Inc.

Do you own a Mac, Dell, HP, Sony, or Toshiba computer? All of these come from the same manufacturer: Quanta Computer Inc.

7) Inbev

Few people have heard of Inbev, but it’s a company to know. Inbev has a huge monopoly over the beer industry and has massive influence, as a result.

6) Pfizer

Pfizer — a U.S.-based global pharmaceutical corporation — makes $40 billion in profit. Every. Single. Year.

5) Pearson

Because the company has a monopoly over the education sector, it has been able to increase the prices of learning — and no one is able to stop them.

4) ICBC

The acronym stands for the Industrial and Commercial Bank of China. The bank is state-owned, and is now of the most powerful banks on the planet.

3) Monsanto

The company responsible for glyphosate — which is proven carcinogen — specializes in agricultural biotechnology. It’s estimated worth is around $65 billion.

2) Disney

Kids and adults love Disney, so it probably shouldn’t come as a surprise that more than half of all highest grossing movies of the last decade are owned by Disney.  As a result, Disney has huge influence in the world.

1) Alphabet Inc

If you haven’t heard of this company, you’re not alone. But surprise, surprise, Alphabet Inc actually owns Google, making it one of the — if not the — most powerful company in the world.

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The answer to the unique ring from Tutankhamen’s tomb makes experts scratch their heads

Even after Tutankhamen’s tomb was found in 1922, stran𝚐e objects continue to be discovered. Amon𝚐 the unusual artefacts unearthed within the pharaoh’s tomb, archaeolo𝚐ists uncovered a bizarre rin𝚐 picturin𝚐 or representin𝚐 a hi𝚐hl𝚢 distinctive humanoid form.

Accordin𝚐 to academics, the rin𝚐 is considered to represent the ancient E𝚐𝚢ptian deit𝚢 Ptah.



However, it’s unclear wh𝚢 he looks so much like a person. There is nothin𝚐 in the artwork that supports the alien theor𝚢. Alon𝚐 with a host of other items in the nei𝚐hborhood, he soars. Experts think it has to do with extraterrestrial technolo𝚐𝚢.

Nobod𝚢 knows what the thin𝚐s in the rin𝚐 are for. The rin𝚐, on the other hand, dates from 600 BC, while ancient E𝚐𝚢ptians believe Ptah lived 5-15 thousand 𝚢ears a𝚐o.

Man𝚢 experts think that extraterrestrial visitors visited the ancient E𝚐𝚢ptians. Hopefull𝚢, one da𝚢, we will be able to discover the truth.

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THE TRUE REASON WHY SOME PEOPLE ALWAYS END UP IN NEGATIVE SCENARIOS

As a personal development coach, I frequently observe repetitive patterns among many clients. A person creates similar scenarios or gets similar results over and over in their lives and they don’t understand where is the problem. For instance, a man consistently finds himself with a partner who either departs or engages in unfaithful behavior, a new relationship – a similar outcome. Another person continues to attract individuals who mistreat her, despite her kind nature. Someone else consistently draws drama and negative interactions from friends, colleagues, and even strangers.

One of the biggest challenges in our own personal development journey is our inability to recognize our own patterns and behaviors. Often, we remain oblivious to them, or at best, possess only partial awareness. This is because many of these behaviors have become ingrained habits, influencing our lives for years, sometimes decades, until they become familiar. Occasionally, these patterns trace back to childhood, and we remain unaware of any alternatives. The reality is that many of our behaviors and patterns exert unseen influence on our lives. Consider, for instance, a father who continually criticizes his adult children. He believes they should already be married, pursuing “successful careers”, making money, and starting families. However, the children prefer to explore life’s possibilities, taking time to decide on their path. The father’s perspective taints his judgment, leading him to critique their actions and behaviors. This not only fails to elicit the desired changes but exacerbates the situation. The children resist criticism, feeling misunderstood and reluctant to follow the life he envisions for them. Unaware of the toxicity in his comments or the pain they cause, the father remains oblivious. Consequently, the children avoid confrontation, instead choosing to distance themselves. They visit the father less frequently and don’t call that often. The father is perplexed by their avoidance, failing to see that his behavior is the root cause. His willingness to impose his vision onto their lives rather than support their choices stems from selfishness. He might believe his perspective is superior, yet if it conflicts with their desires, it cannot be considered “better.”

One of my past clients approached me with the recurring problem of attracting individuals who disrespect, exploit, and undervalue her kindness. She recounted years of facing these situations, despite her inherently caring nature and consistent efforts to assist others. The pattern was clear to me, as I’ve encountered this dynamic in numerous people, even experiencing similar struggles myself in the past. The challenge lay in her tendency to readily agree to requests, prioritizing others over herself. Whether a family member sought a favor, even if contrary to her best interests, she feared refusing would diminish her likability, prompting her to comply. As the adage goes, one cannot pour from an empty cup; attending to our own needs precedes extending help to others. When we neglect self-care in favor of assisting others, an attraction pattern forms, inviting more such situations into our lives. Consequently, we attract individuals who perceive our kindness as standard and fail to appreciate it. Over time, this behavior establishes a background attraction pattern that persists even if we change friends, locations, or jobs.

Frequently, the unfolding of our lives mirrors our underlying patterns. For instance, a person with “chaotic energy” might repeatedly keep attracting scenarios that will reflect that.

We often perceive the world through our unique lens, frequently ignorant of our patterns and their impact on our lives.

If you end up in negative scenarios over and over and you don’t know what is causing it. Get in touch, send me an email and I will offer you a free initial coaching call for up to 30min.